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Lea Stublarec, MSW
Certified Parent Coach
650-248-5056
lea@nurturinggenius.com
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elcome to Nurturing Genius. I’ve worked with families
for over 20 years as a social worker, parent coach and researcher,
but my most rewarding and challenging job EVER was raising
my two daughters (ages 23 and 25). As a mother of gifted children,
I felt like I was “flying blind” trying to meet
their unique educational, social and emotional needs. This
situation was only made worse by mixed messages from teachers
and parents of non-gifted kids. On one hand, I was told: “All
kids are gifted” (and, therefore, my child shouldn’t
be given any special consideration) and, conversely that:
“Your child is so bright, you’ve got nothing to
worry about.” However, the reality, especially for my
exceptionally gifted older child, was that, in my heart, I
knew that things weren’t perfect….that she had
special needs I was unable to meet. I felt like a failure
because I couldn’t find a positive learning environment
for her or adequately address her social and emotional issues.
I often felt isolated and helpless, and worried a lot about
how I was failing as a parent.
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Fortunately, we somehow survived, using a piecemeal approach,
desperately seeking out various counselors, therapists, and
a few caring educators as issues and crises arose during different
developmental stages…..but I realized that having the
support of a parent (AND a professional) who’s “been
there and done that”, openly sharing their wisdom, support
and encouragement as well as providing information on giftedness
would have been a God-send. Therefore, this is my mission:
to let you, as a parent of a gifted child, know that you’re
not alone, that parenting gifted kids can be extremely challenging,
and that, working together, we can achieve your dreams. My
goal is to empower you as a parent and create more joy on
your parenting journey. Your happiness and satisfaction as
a parent is critical to both your growth and the growth of
your child.
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